Me: Okay, thank you so much for your time. I’d like to ask you a few questions about my legacy and how you have been perceived from different perspectives. Okay, let’s get started. First question: What kind of person did you think I was when you first met me?
Friend: 小时候，额，天天捣乱，欺负我，小时候我记不大清了，我怎么知道你小时候干啥了啊。小时候非常调皮，看到你天天被爸爸妈妈打，天天被老师找，因为打架斗殴。比如上国际部拿水杯砸同学，被老师找家长。
小时候我天天给你全家的会员，然后你在我这买。你跟我说然后我自己去买，买东西，然后回来之后你给我钱什么的。但是这不公平你钱给少了但我不知道为什么要给。你非常狡猾奸诈，没有当好一个哥哥的责任。
因为你，我都忘记了我当时跟你搞的这个东西了，反正我当时肯定是钱跟东西不对等还是怎么招的忘记了，反正这样子。
Me: Alright, thank you so much. I’m so glad to hear that. Since you mentioned that I looked pretty introverted at first, I’m also curious what gave you that impression. Was it from my first look, or was there something specific that made you think that?
Friend: It was kind of from your first look and what you were doing, because you looked a bit intimidating, kind of depressed, and you were also trying to do things on your computer by yourself. So you seemed kind of introverted.
Me: Okay, thank you. Question number two: Was there a moment where your perception of me shifted significantly?
Friend: 对你看法改变的时候，其实目前还没有。
额，对啊，
你从小时候和每个人打游戏额，对，对待每个人的情绪都一样，到现在和别人打游戏对不同人的情绪都不一样。
不了解，应该是瞬间吧。可能比如说今天比如说突然跟一个人打游戏变善良了。
Me: Oh, really? Yeah. I really appreciate that. Anyway, thank you for sharing that. I would like to ask: was it a specific moment, or was it more of a gradual change?
Friend: It was more of a gradual change.
Me: Okay, next question. If I am graduating from high school, what do you think students or my friends will remember me for?
Friend: 你对这个家留下了什么价值，额，价值，额，让我爸妈觉得欣慰了，更欣慰了，因为你读大学了。
Me: Oh, thank you. So let me just ask this: do you think I have influenced you in any way? If so, how has that happened?
Friend: 产生了我对哥哥，以前我觉得哥哥非常应该就是，因为我看别人家哥哥对妹妹都很好，但是你就是我开智后面你出现了，然后我就改变了这个看法，就觉这个哥哥还是太差了。
那你就对我产生了，我对哥哥的厌恶之情。
因为你很多行为，比如我让你帮个忙你都不帮，比如你对我
我，额，因为我变成熟了，
Me: I see. Do you think that influence has lasted, or was it just temporary?
Friend: I feel like that influence has lasted, because it made me more confident.
Me: Thank you for sharing that. I want to ask something related: what do you think I brought into this group or community that might not have been there otherwise?
Friend: I think you brought really thoughtful ideas into this group, and those might not have been there otherwise, especially because you do not usually talk that much.
Me: Okay, last question of this interview. What do you think my biggest strength is, and does it ever become a weakness?
Friend: I feel like your biggest strength is being really patient with other people and giving them really great advice. I do not think it becomes a weakness, because you are always trying to help other people and give thoughtful advice. So no, I would not say it is a weakness. I think it is a very kind trait.
Me: Alright, that is it. Thank you again for your time. I really appreciate your answers. See you have a nice day.